In this day and age? She's just shown you that you can't trust her with your sexuality. There were many times where we wanted to throw in the towel. Anyone that believes stay for the kids has literally never had any experience as a kid whos parents stayed for them. Dont let your wifes shitty behavior ruin your confidence and self worth. If you can't own up to what you're doing in the bedroom, you aren't mature enough to be doing it. When she answered I could tell shed been crying and was a wreck. One of the things they dont tell you about relationships is that you gotta be able to stand up for your SO when the time comesso even if OPs wife doesnt actually believe all that and bent to peer pressure, that really sucks and Im sorry she feels that way with her friends, but she shouldnt be surprised if she loses her husband. The other men were cowering in my path - perhaps it was the still throbbing splitting seams, or maybe it was the velocity I was able to achieve on my heelys from the downward grade of my driveway. Then one girl left and all of a sudden the other girl is giving pointers! He is my best friend, and I would never make fun of him behind his back like that. She criticized him and tried to get me to break up with him. Dude that story is messed up. Dont just jump straight to divorce. Slipping up and sharing something very private about your husband is betrayal enough. People are weak sometimes. Then lots of hard conversations and a come to Jesus with your wife. I also pointed out that every single one of her relationships ended up being abusive so she had no right to tell me to leave my boyfriend when he'd never lay a finger on me. Maybe your wife didnt feel comfortable telling her friends that she enjoyed herself because she didnt want to be judged. Girls can be katty and have fun taking diggs at each other (guys too but its a stereotypical thing with girls). I suggest an open minded conversation. This is NOT on her timeline anymore. She is the person who is supposed to have your back the most, and not only did she not, she threw you to the wolves and also took some bites herself. This. Ive never felt this upset. As Ive gotten older and talked/listened to more and more people, it definitely seems like most toxic masculinity stems from mens encounters with women they trusted, not other men. If she isn't willing to do both of those things, then she is proving she doesn't value you enough, or is sorry enough for the damage she's caused, to be worth staying with. Even if it is a stay vacation somewhere near your home. I believe you'll deal with this and adapt. Genuine apologies matter so I guess gage how genuine you think she is or if shes just upset she got caught? My late uncle had to watch his wife leave him on his sick bed because she couldn't bring herself so be seen that way, talking about "a whole me tending to a sick man, me I can't oh let his family do it ".. Are those things outweighed by her indiscrete talking (and her judgemental friends). IN YOUR HOME. Plus she essentially participated or at the least validated, them ridiculing his sexuality. She told her friends some of your kinks gross her out, and then told them she fantasizes about her ex-boyfriend while you fuck her. You have every right to be pissed. First of all, I think we all say less than admirable things about our SOs at times. Yup. If you love her and things work, then your answer is clear. She said two of her friends are judgmental and believe youre either gay or straight and since I enjoy men (only sexually, not romantically) I must be gay. I dated a man who tried to beat the bisexuality out of me because the few girl friends I had were "my type." Repeat offenders shouldnt get second chances and neither should first time ones. Be honest anyway. Highlight the fact that obviously the buck didn't stop with her friends as at least one of their husbands know. This is divorce worthy. So here is a truth I don't think many men/women/etc get: SO's talk. I packed a bag, kissed the kids goodbye, and told them I was going to grandmas house to help her with something. But she enjoys to embarrass you to her friends behind your back about it. She sounded way too comfortable with what she was saying (based on OP's description. She needs to understand that at least. She put you down at your own house. Letting your orientation slip to her friends is one thing, if she was drunk and it was an accident that's understandable, but it wasn't an accident to make fun of you behind your back to her homophobe friends. . Whoa. And if they give you a hard time, then fuck em! I know that your * secret life * is very personal to you, but not many people will be concerned or even bothered about your sexuality. Accept yourself, just try to improve. Dont slide back to her. It sounds like shes remorseful. The women were all on the patio outside. One day he throws a temper tantrum, and instead of talking with me about his insecurities, he goes off and tells everyone about it. He was literally a running joke to all of them. I live in a fairly large Canadian metropolitan area, most guys I know and hang out with are even a little bi. Oh my god I fucking lost it at your comment. And regarding the "I let it slip while drunk" part, she's still responsible for her acts while drunk. I never said a word to anyone because I knew how bad she felt about that. Had a similar situation with my best friend. ", I doubt he cares about that, its mostly that his wife was saying all of those things behind his back but she acts like she likes it to him. Stay strong man I can only hope you can move on from this with your confidence restored. Your sexuality isn't really fodder to take the piss out of. I was going to say something identical. Yeah, I'm a married woman. Best of luck. As for the rest of it, definitely couples counseling. Best of luck, stay happy, and be you (those who disagree can simply get out). Including mutual friends that were homophobic and a girl who hated my guts (and my ex totally knew about those things). Let's give your wife the benefit of the doubt for a moment. So I became kind of a joke and was constantly approached by family and friends, which didnt contributed at all for my stress level. This wasn't the first time - no one but him was shocked and all the friends knew it was safe to joke about. Idc who they are. As in, never talk to them again. Same. You are going to have to shrug this off but your not overacting. Birds of a feather flock together. That's only for me and my wife to know. Or no, either way it was gross as fuck. How could you ever trust this person again. She forced him out, and its time for her to join him. For the record, any intelligent person knows that there is no straight/gay/bi sex acts. we're both 28. You need a therapist to help you process what you're feeling, you need to process that in your time and she needs to fucking wait for you to do it if she really cares about you. The guys and I were in the garage smoking and throwing back some beers just bullshitting about this and that. The Geni has escaped from the bottle, as there's no chance of putting it back in, you need to deal with the humiliation that you feel in how it was told. For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. You need to learn how to deal with being outed and your stupid wife needs to understand the true ramifications for you. But please know this, todays generation can say theyre in the exact same boat as you and face no issues from same aged folks. She may end up escalating the situation. She is trying to write this shit off as a mistake. If they outed me and mocked our sex life with their friends, I would never be able to be intimate with them again. If alcohol was involved the first time she told them, maybe she was talking about it because she wanted to get a read on how her friends would react. Right? What she did is not a simple mistake. Would she still have the friends over knowing how they feel? So (and this is where your perception of the relationship comes in) you have to determine whether she was going with the flow of the conversation or whether she does actually have an issue with that. Best of luck with whatever you decide! If you do want to try to stay with her then, at minimum, you need to insist on marriage counseling immediately and you also need to insist that she completely cut the two homophobic/judgmental friends out of her life. You don't want her or the kids hanging around with him. First, you did not overreact, this is a huge violation of your trust. If shes serious about your marriage shell reassess her friends group too. Its just another role, like being the dutiful daughter or the waste of space ex or the everyone loves me co-worker. She told him that he was drunk and that no she hadn't told me. I keep my composure as best I can and open the slider to the patio and poke my head out. Yea, some people are just too worried what their peers think and arent (strong/brave) enough to go against the group. Not buying it. Seems to me that because of her indifference to your feelings, she needs to get rid of those friends because she emasculated you in front of them. Own who you are and youll feel so much better. I mean, youre not wrong petty king/queen. Honestly the only advice I have is to go for that beer with your friend, he seems to be the only one in the situation treating you decently. Or even a long drive. My suggestion? I got in my car and drove to my mom's house. Especially when it all seems to have been going well. Which means wherever you gothere will be a little voice in the back of your mind wondering if people are judging you or talking shit about you behind your back, I'm not sure how you move forward in this situation but I would suggest individual therapy and couples counseling.as well as asking her to put some distance between her and the people she ran her mouth to, I would suggest individual therapy and couples counseling.as well as asking her to put some distance between her and the people she ran her mouth to. Nope, don't buy it. Those homophobes won't care that he's married to a woman. Or will she stand by him, tell her friends she is the one who was lying because she was afraid of their reactions, and own her shit? Frankly I would be more able to forgive infidelity than I would these kind of conversations. Thats pretty telling. How I interpret you feel: she betrayed your trust, she shared your private life, and then made fun of it. Things that concern only you two she turn into an open truth and open truths she kept from you. I know that your * secret life * is very personal to you, but not many people will be concerned or even bothered about your sexuality. I am not open about my sexuality. Nowadays? It's healthy and necessary. OP can do better than Tom. Dude, I am so sorry. Second communicate. It was a private part of your life that you trusted her with. I mean, what you probably should have done was just walk quietly back to the garage and talk about it in private with your wife later- like an adult. Humanity is an ocean. Whatre you guys laughing about? I ask with a smile playing stupid. If Tom popped back into the picture at any point, Id have told my partner what happened. Good luck bro! Imagine it was a really graphic conversation, about all her body parts or how she is bad at oral sex, and it included discussions of your ex-girlfiend for comparison. And what the fuck do you expect?? When the "friends" make their snide comments, she should be backing you up, not joining in. I couldn't stop laughing at the first sentence in your comment. They are not good people (homophobes are not good people), and they don't give a shit about you or your relationship with her. Third, it is really nobody's business if you are Bi, and nobody should care about it anyway. As for your wifes friends, if they feel that strongly about your sexual preferences, then fuck em too! You need to learn how to deal with being outed and your stupid wife needs to understand the true ramifications for you. I haven't gotten through this personally, however, I would suggest marriage counseling if you stay with her. Oh come.A- at least. But don't be shocked when prople know already. I agree, marriage counseling ASAP. Mahatma Gandhi I think that you need a good week to try and think about how you feel, how you're going to be able to contain the gossip and how you move forward with the wife . I would suggest that you avoid any hasty decisions that would blow your life up until you take some time to process this on your timeline. A couple of laffs? you sound like a fuckin pussy, enjoy your manliness, as you your wife fucks u in the ass LOL. I think you should try to work this out. That's what's really completely messed up - she's been joking with pals behind his back for a couple years and never told him she had slipped up. I was pooping and you helped me push from laughing so hard. Before my wife was with me she dated a man named Tom. Let her know that if she wants to patch this up, its on her. This given that she initiates the sex games, and probably will never admit to friends that she enjoys them as a kink to keep the bedroom alive and hot. Then the friend asked my wife if she had ever been tempted to cheat on me with (insert ex-boyfriend's name), to which my wife replied saying hell no, that she would never risk our marraige like that. Talk it out and see if she can commit to working on this need to put on appearances. People do stupid shit. He and I werent real close, but wed hang out here and there and always enjoyed one anothers company at get togethers and stuff. It sounds more like it's a matter of comfort and trust. Well he's not open about being bi so I'm pretty sure he does care about it. Are you being a bit harsh? How unattractive I feel. Would she have thrown Tom under the bus like that to entertain her friends ignorance? The thing that's most revolting is that she'd hang you out to dry just to agree with her mates. I told her how emasculated and embarrassed I felt. No real worries there. She more than likely enjoys your sex life and marriage, but is ashamed at how her friends make her feel, and used you as an outlet. Honor every feeling, but don't become paralysed by them. I would never be able to sleep with my wife again but OP might be better than me. Are there no angry bi men who look like grocery store managers? Do you love her more than anything? We had a group of our friends over and as the night went on we all kind of busted out into little groups. 1.) She said that was why she made the comment about thinking about Tom during some things we do sexually because she felt they were judging her for being with me. You never speak about your wife in that manner so why do you have to put up with it. You have a couple of children and a good life up until now. Isn't this basically reverse sexism? I turned around and stormed off to our room. I think you did the right thing by leaving that night, although blowing up the party that was might not have been the best idea. If you are honest, people may cheat you. Get your better halves and get the fuck out of my house I sniped as I tipped my fedora and winked at my wifes hottest friend who was clearly impressed by my rage erection that had partially split the seam in my relaxed fit Levi 501s. People won't forget about it. If it was truly a complete accident, she wouldn't continue joking about it with them. Also, she may have "let it slip" 2 years ago, but obviously they've all talked about it since. 3) Gossiping about your private life and using it as entertainment for her friends is a huge betrayal. I found out that Im extremely affects by stress, including fight at home. Your wife acted poorly. Standard Group Plc HQ Office, The Standard Group Center,Mombasa Road. We were having drinks and girl talk, about sex, etc.. well he didnt like a few things he heard and got upset. Its amazing where friendship comes from in the darkest of times. Posing with her Dutch-born man, the 29-year-old . Most people in the comments seem to be going off of the deep end here. Embarrassed..then it turned to rage. Between stimulus and response, there is a space. she outed you, made cruel jokes about your guys sex life, and didnt shut down her friends for being homophobic/biphobic. Can you explain this because its giving homophobia, It could damage his reputation. You can't act if you don't know how you feel. But it's not cool to talk about your spouse like that to fit in and it's definitely not cool to talk about your intimate secrets with other people. Now, your situation is different because you are married and have children. Hope everything works out with you guys. I knew I wasnt in a good state and ignored all of them. Take care of yourself, you have the right to take more time if you need it. Been with each other for roughly 4 years. Right now is the time for your wife to stand by you. This crap has been swimming around for TWO FUCKING YEARS. This is a recipe that you can utilize to get through a tough circumstance or even a bad day. Do you believe what she told you? I want to know how shes going to deal with her friends going forward. My identity was something I held tight to my chest for years. What she did was the lowest of the low and completely unacceptable. She and her group of mean girls clearly cant accept that. Best of luck man. Forgive them anyway. Wife: Oh, nothing just a funny story from (friends name) work. For years. Im healthy and fit, exercise frequently and eat well, so that kind excludes most physiological causes. Author Hazel McBride claimed that she's so "average-looking" that she feels uneasy around her more handsome husband in a now-viral TikTok. Implying that OP's "flaw" as husband material is because he not 100% straight and slept with men is homophobic. I know from experience when you say Ill kinds of shit and they say whatever makes your friends happy or agree especially if youre drinking and they all laugh about it I believe your wife really does love you but she needs to stand up for you with your friends and those friends arent real friends so they have no business in your home do you need some serious counseling for your children sake. By bringing it up then and making your feelings the most important feelings in the room, you are being childish. What else is she keeping from OP? I dunno, this feels like a day time drama and not a real story! Hows everything going out there? she asked motioning to the garage smiling nervously. If you want to save your marriage and restore trust some sort of therapy is probably necessary. I turned to my wife with a raised eyebrow and announced I guess you didnt have me pegged to be a man that would stand up for himself! And I majestically brushed my cape back and walked right out of the house. After some investigation the the psychologist and clinic consensus was that my mind was f***ed up. Good luck. She shouldnt care what others think of her or you, let alone talk about you negatively behind your back. How long have you been the butt of their homophobic jokes? I understand you were angry and not thinking straight, but that is besides the point. Any other friends you have in common likely know. The trust cannot be restored and it would be better to separate for now. Im sorry dude but girlfriends have secrets and Im pretty sure that there are conversations youve had that youd be ashamed for your wife to have heard. I (45M) have been married to my wife (45F) for 20 years. You heard the truth when she was talking to her friends, about your private life, without your knowledge. You deserve better treatment from her. I'm glad she apologized. Smoked. Youd be second guessing everything they tell you from here in. I am not straight, nor am I gay. At 31 years old! All you heard was a snippet of the conversation that you could loud and clear despite being in another room. As for your wife - I think her feelings are understandable even if her actions were insensitive. She should have known to do that herself beforehand. But I don't know that it's unforgivable. Their partners undoubtedly know about you. I was in a conversation with two other girls about anal sex. My husband is also bi, and I would never mock his sexuality like that. Your wife really messed up. Id be worried he was sleeping with his friends and Id be scared of what he asked me to do in the bedroom they all giggled.i was FLOORED. Personally I think you handled as well as could be expected - what with confronting the issue right away and pulling consequences for her violating your very personal boundary/secret. 2. As a queer person, I would never feel comfortable being with someone biphobic or who is okay being friends with people who are biphobic. Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your marriage. Acknowledge what you are going through sucks, don't judge it, & tell yourself the following: this is temporary. Best thing to do is give it some time. Remember also that it is okay to feel uncomfortable - instead of fighting these feelings, allow them to just pass through you. Only one thing to do in this situation. Both were pretty against it and kind of gave me a hard time about trying it with my husband and even liking it. Shes hurt you, she needs to stand by you and say that shes proud of you and supports you, has no doubts, and enjoys it herself. she can claim she doesnt mean it all she wants but that will not change the fact she said it and then didnt defend you when things got ugly. When people start talking about things that are intimate, sometimes they succumb to the pressure (not necessarily peer pressure in the "tell us, tell us sense, but more the pressure to feel bonded, to feel close to friends) to share things they shouldn't. Then one friend says I could never be with a man who like men. We have good jobs that the pandemic didnt effect too much. I'm just saying people can be stupid. First, I am so sorry she made those statements for whatever the reason. I think the problem here is not your wife not loving you or your sex life -- it sounds like she loves you very much and enjoys y'all's sex life. Unfortunately as long as there are homophobic people out there, there is potential to damage his reputation. I bet you can still hold your head high with them. I have no idea how you will be able to have sex with her. But I also feel like it's a betrayal you can come back from. Try distancing yourselves from these particular friends / connections until self estern / acceptance issues are resolved. Wife: babe were you in the kit. I cut her off. Another violation of your trust. She does have a right to talk to you about it, and you with her. She's probably just as judgemental as them because people surround themselves with people like themselves. You pave the way for us, and I appreciate you tons. I also really dont like how shes the one who initiates/etc yet was making fun of it?? A DAD whose wife and kids stopped talking to him because he was covered in tattoos says he has no regrets. And highlight that she prioritized her friendships over your feelings. The only reason you know of this disrespect is because you accidentally heard them saying stuff behind your back? Next time she will really consider how the way she's talking to her friends could make you feel. I would be so freaking upset & sad. It's so important when you have a union of two souls to do everything you can to make sure that your love stays connected and flourishes. I mean the "I overheard my wife say something upsetting about me to her friends" genre is a little played out. How much more reassurance do you need? It takes a bigger person to take the high road, and most people are not. She used your innermost private information (your sexuality) as fodder for gossip and jokes. Don't be embarrassed about any of that stuff, everyone knows now so just own it. Your partner in crime fucked up. Take a few days away from everything. I could not imagine this type of betrayal and I hope you can find peace. Especially since it contradicted her actions so much. My fears were confirmed she'd been talking to him for a good while. You and your sexuality are valid and you deserve to be treated as such. Shes outed you twice, once under influence and this time more than completely sober, then proceeded to loudly discuss your sex life in front of a judgemental group of biphobes who then proceeded to tell their SOs about it and are now probably telling anyone wholl listen about it. Couples counseling may help rebuild trust. That's a major issue in my eyes at least. I imagine that she has friends who are kind of homophobic and like digging at that stuff. The third, least savoury issue: She may still have hidden feelings for Tom. I 100% understand why you're so upset. Honestly I admire you had the balls to call her out in front of her friends and kick everyone out! To at least one person. She broke your trust, plain and simple. Don't fight. Fourthly, buy that man a beer. My mom wasnt even home, I had forgotten she was on vacation. Unless they're all like that and she's just throwing a couple out for a meat shield, like she did with you. Do not let anybody minimize this either. It doesn't matter how private it is, or if they say they don't, they talk. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I think that is a much worse betrayal, to laugh at him behind his back with these people he thinks are friends. She probably just wants to belong and is afraid to stand up to, i am guessing here, to friends with stronger personalities. If it was an accident, she should have come clean when it happened. Would she have ever stood up for you and put her friends in place? About everything. Life works in a whelm of duality. Wife: (my name) I dunno what your heard but its not what, Me: (wifes name) I know exactly what I heard.. Once you know how you need to move forward, she can either own her awful behavior and support you or she can kick rocks. Im not at all saying you were wrong to stay and listen and your feelings are VALID. Be kind anyway. That was 100% a choice on her part. Just the circles I run in a guess. 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